Space

Space "the final frontier". Well! that was not what I wanted to write this post about. So what if life was created from some big bang theory.

Let us explore and pounder on some of the views which at times lands into our mail box or comes to us as forward sms. This is something I got latest.

NINE WORDS WOMEN USE

(1)   Fine :   This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2)   Five Minutes :   If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

(3)   Nothing :   This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with "nothing" usually end in "fine".

(4)   Go Ahead :   This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

(5)   Loud Sigh :   This is actually a word, but is a nonverbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about "nothing". (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

(6)   That's Okay! :   This is one of the most dangerous statements a woman can make to a man. That's okay! means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

(7)   Thanks :   A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome'. That will bring on a 'whatever').

(8)   Whatever :   Is a woman's way of saying   *@%*#   YOU!

(9)   Don't worry about it, I got it :   Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

My close female friend said to me once, you guys just like making funny jokes on female. Well, to her my response is NO. What will us men folks do without you in our life? All that we say or do there is always a woman. Just imagine 90% of songs are made on woman. 

The argument lies what prompts us to say such comments and I am sure given the opportunity there will be plenty in response from the opposite sex. Some of the reason of such impromptu is more to do with my topic “space” to each other.

Wonder why do we need such a thing called space or sometime we get to hear “give me my space for a change will you?”

Demand for space or giving space to someone who is integral part of one owns life is so important especially in today’s social context. I recall a statement that:  imagine life as a game in which you are juggling five balls in the air - Work, family, health, friends and spirit. You will soon realize that work is a rubber ball, it will bounce back but the other four balls are made of glass. You drop one of these it’s gonna be irrevocable and simultaneously you have to ensure there is reasonable space in between the balls so that they don’t collide with each other.  

Space is not just between two couple in a relationship but the whole universe we live in. I am not here to teach anyone how to give space or what is space all about but the word space could become a metaphor applicable to whole host of environment under whose influence we all are.

Space is endless, its huge, does it reflects trust, faith, feeling, emotion, pain, agony? .. NO. It only reflects the free spirit and helps it to connect with the inner soul - the final frontier.